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Nicholas D’Adamo Jr.
It is with profound sadness that we announce the sudden passing of Nicholas D’Adamo Jr., of Jersey City, New Jersey, on September 14, 2026, at the age of 55.
Nicholas was a lifelong Jersey City resident whose life was deeply rooted in family, education, community, and an enduring curiosity about the world around him. His sudden passing leaves an immeasurable absence in the lives of those who knew and loved him.
Nicholas was the beloved son of the late Nicholas D’Adamo Sr. and Phyllis Capparelli D’Adamo, the cherished brother of Danielle D’Adamo, and the loving husband of Joan Ryan. He was also a beloved brother-in-law to David Tress and Kathy Ryan, as well as a treasured family member, friend, colleague, and teacher to so many.
At the time of his passing, Nicholas was a science teacher at Jersey City Public School #11, a profession perfectly suited to his inquisitive mind and love of learning. Teaching was more than a job; it gave him the opportunity to share his curiosity, knowledge, and enthusiasm with generations of students. His influence will live on in the young people who passed through his classroom and in the colleagues who worked alongside him.
Nicholas believed in remaining curious throughout life. He loved playing chess, speech and debate, and learning to play the trumpet. Whether considering his next move across a chessboard, engaging in a spirited discussion, exploring the world of science, or tackling the challenge of a new instrument, Nicholas never stopped learning.
He was also a proud member of the Dante Alighieri Society and the Deutscher Club of Clark, communities through which he enjoyed fellowship, culture, tradition, and friendship.
For his sister Danielle, Nicholas was far more than a brother. They shared 48 years of life together: childhood memories, a family, their deep roots in Jersey City, the heartbreak of losing their parents, and a history that belonged uniquely to the two of them. A sibling is someone who remembers where you came from and carries pieces of your earliest life that no one else can. Nicholas’s place in Danielle’s life and heart can never be replaced.
To Joan, he was a loving partner. To his family, he was a connection to a lifetime of shared stories and memories. To his colleagues and students, he was an educator. To his friends, he was someone with whom they could learn, debate, laugh, play a game of chess, or simply enjoy good company.
Nicholas was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Nicholas D’Adamo Sr. and Phyllis Capparelli D’Adamo. He leaves behind his loving wife, Joan Ryan; his cherished sister, Danielle D’Adamo; his brother-in-law, David Tress; his sister-in-law, Kathy Ryan; along with his extended family, friends, colleagues, students, and the many people whose lives intersected with his own.
Nicholas’s life cannot be measured simply by 55 years. It can be measured in the students he taught, the questions he encouraged people to ask, the conversations and debates he shared, the friendships he made, the family he loved, and the countless memories that will now be carried forward by those who knew him.
His was a life of curiosity, learning, teaching, conversation, and love.
He was deeply loved. He will be profoundly missed. And he will never be forgotten.
Services are private.